Finding Strength in the Silence: My Journey to a Mental Buffer Zone

FITNESS

9/17/20252 min read

Woke up early and spent ages admiring myself in the mirror — what a breakthrough!The lines of my legs are truly captivating!At this very moment, I’m in such a great mood!While organizing my glute and leg training log,I couldn’t help but realize —I’ve truly built my own “mental buffer zone”for those times when I’m quietly putting in the work.There’s a quote from People’s Daily that I’ve always kept saved in my notes:

“If you are not yet strong enough, hide yourself away for a while.

Hone yourself in places unnoticed by others,

then appear where all eyes can see.”

Yes.It feels so good to work hard in silence,especially once you start seeing results.

✅ Working on health and exercise

A healthy body is the foundation of everything. Working out isn’t just about losing fat or gaining muscle —it improves your posture, elevates your presence,and naturally lets your inner confidence shine through.

✅ Working to avoid overthinking

Don’t lose yourself in distractions. I’ve stepped back from mindless entertainment platforms,learning to block out noise and decline meaningless social interactions.

✅ Working toward mental stability

Mental stability isn’t about unconditionally accepting everything that happens —it’s about having the courage to start over, even after breakdowns.You only need to make peace with yourself and stay focused.Where you place your attention is where you’ll find your value.

✅ Working to learn and grow

Languages / finance / coding / communication / cooking / editing / makeup / styling — the list goes on.

Learning is part of life.

Choose a direction that suits you and move forward.

Look — the light is waiting for you.

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Glute & Leg Day

1.40-min Heather Robertson lower body strength workout

2.30-min Anna Engels no-repeat leg & glute HIIT blast

3.15-min MadFit stretching (I looove stretching — even on rest days I make time for 15-30 minutes. Never skip stretching after lower body!)

Today’s Meals

Breakfast: Homemade oat latte + corn + 2 eggs

Lunch: Soy-braised chicken thighs (drank half a bottle of Hong Kong-style milk tea)

Dinner: Curry potato & chicken rice (with half a cup of bubble tea)

30 Years Old, Finally Found My "Mental Buffer Zone"